Isang batang nangangarap na magustuhan ng kanyang CRUSH

“Mag-ingat ka, maraming kinakausap yan. If you know what I mean. “ –anonymous. 

In our teen years, having our “super” crush is just a normal thing in our generation. Eh wait lang, ano nga ba ang salitang to? Crush, is when Cupid hits one person yet forgets to hit another. O sa simpleng salita, kunwariang in-love =))).  Our crushes are the reason for our smiles on our faces; The reason why we look forward for the day; and will always be our inspiration when we do our work. It’s kinda fascinating on how they make a huge impact in our lives. For the people who have their Blackberries, some of us install that app when your LED’s going to flash any color to tell who texted you. Syempre para sakanya, iba’t ibang kulay :”> (yuck, landi ko) But in every part of the story, there will always be a downside. Having a “super” crush doesn’t automatically mean that you would have a big chance of them liking you too. So this is the part when heartbreaks come and tears are shed. We usually give all the blame to your crush’s crush. But are you pointing the blame to the right person? Yun yung di ko magets saten ee. Di ba dapat magalit ka dun sa crush mo kasi may gusto siyang iba? Eh yung crush naman niya, walang kamalay malay sa mga nangyayare. Baka nga ayaw pa sakanya ee. Tas bigla nalang niya malalaman na galit ka pala sakanya. Baka pa nga tinutulungan ka pa niya para magustuhan ka pa ng crush mo. Maybe that’s just the nature of being jealous. You don’t care on whose fault is it. There will also be a time when your crush is single but doesn’t like you back. WHICH IS TOTALLY NORMAL but </3. Maybe you’re just not that close to his/her factors; Or maybe, he/she doesn’t like your aura. Eh if you’re in his/her part, di ba mahirap naman din ipagpilit ang ayaw. Though there will be the part when you’re going to feel so insecure and so uncertain with yourself. Some of us enter the phase where we force ourselves to change because we think that they’ll like us in that way. Some may succeed in this way but many fail and look like a noob. But, are you going to waste your time with the person who doesn’t even think of you every day? In my opinion, it depends on how you like the person. But always remember your limitations. Let yourself learn the nature of getting hurt and learn on how to solve the matter. It’s so fun to feel the butterflies on your stomach and the kilig vibes when he/she texted you, mentioned you on twitter, BBM-ed you, IM-ed you, emailed you, or give you a call. 

Take note: “Umaasa stage” Even though it’s hard to avoid, we must command our brain to stop expecting. Mas masarap kasi yung feeling pag unexpected O___O Yung parang kay Katniss at kay Peeta. *ehem ehem. Mockingjay na yan* =)) Their love story may be fictional but it is possible to happen in real life. So for you guys who have their ultimate crush, just have fun J. We may have a short life but do your best to live your life to the fullest and try to take risks. Maybe yang move mo na yan, ang magdudulot ng saya sayo for the next couple of months ;)